{"id":9677,"date":"2023-12-31T21:11:56","date_gmt":"2023-12-31T14:11:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=9677"},"modified":"2023-12-31T21:11:56","modified_gmt":"2023-12-31T14:11:56","slug":"living-apart-together-is-it-right-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=9677","title":{"rendered":"Living Apart Together: Is It Right for You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"drop-cap text-big text-gray\"> <span class=\"drop-cap__first text-dropcap \">F<\/span>rida Kahlo and Diego Rivera. Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Fulchuk.<a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/food\/it-only-took-ina-garten-24-hours-to-get-used-to-having-jeffrey-home\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/people.com\/food\/it-only-took-ina-garten-24-hours-to-get-used-to-having-jeffrey-home\/\"> Ina and Jeffrey Garten<\/a>. What do these three famous couples have in common? They lived apart for a portion (or the entirety!) of their marriage.<\/div>\n<p>Living with a spouse or partner can be a beautiful life experience\u2014but this relationship arrangement can be challenging for some folks, regardless of their commitment to each other. Circumstantial causes, risk of loss of space and autonomy, different living habits, or navigating children from prior relationships may make cohabitation difficult\u2014leaving individuals feeling stuck, resentful, and potentially disconnected. However, the traditional relationship status quo of what it means to be in a successful, long-term marriage or committed relationship is now changing thanks to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/19424620.2014.927382\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" class=\"no-underline citation\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/19424620.2014.927382\"><span>trending rise in couples opting to live apart together<\/span><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>What is living apart together?<\/h2>\n<p>First coined by Dutch journalist <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.3917\/popu.2301.0051\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" class=\"no-underline citation\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.3917\/popu.2301.0051\"><span>Michiel Berkel in an article in 1978<\/span><sup>2<\/sup><\/a>, and later popularized by academic sociologists <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/13668809908412186\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" class=\"no-underline citation\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/13668809908412186\"><span>Irene Levin and Jan Trost in 1999<\/span><sup>3<\/sup><\/a>, &#8220;living apart together&#8221; (or LAT, for short) is a living arrangement where individuals in a committed relationship live in separate residences.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;Individuals are choosing the kind of relationship they really want, instead of trying to conform to narrow expectations for what a relationship is supposed to look like.\u201d \u2014Angela Amias, LCSW<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>LAT is seen as a newer type of relationship path, but has shown up in various forms throughout years past. \u201cThere are some famous examples of couples of LAT throughout modern history\u2013 French philosophers Simone de Beauvoir and Jean-Paul Sartre lived apart together [in separate apartments],\u201d says relationship therapist <a href=\"https:\/\/angelaamias.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/angelaamias.com\/\">Angela Amias, LCSW<\/a>, the co-founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/alchemy-of-love.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/alchemy-of-love.com\/\">Alchemy of Love<\/a> and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.traumainformedrelationships.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.traumainformedrelationships.org\/\">Institute for Trauma-Informed Relationships<\/a>. \u201cThe trend really picked up steam in the last several years, and census data suggests that the number of Americans living apart together is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.census.gov\/data\/tables\/2022\/demo\/families\/cps-2022.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.census.gov\/data\/tables\/2022\/demo\/families\/cps-2022.html\">around 3.9 million people<\/a>,\u201d she elaborates. \u201cIt\u2019s not that LAT is new so much as people are owning it as an intentional choice they\u2019re making because they want to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No longer are the days of living apart together <em>only<\/em> for the logistical sake of <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0011392104041809\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" class=\"no-underline citation\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0011392104041809\"><span>practicality and circumstances such as kids, work, school or finances<\/span><sup>4<\/sup><\/a> (which is how living apart together was typically understood in prior decades). Couples are now intentionally doing so long-term. \u201cIn the past, people felt awkward about admitting that they were living apart from a partner out of choice, rather than because of circumstances. It wasn\u2019t seen as a valid lifestyle choice the way it is now,\u201d Amias says. Non-cohabiting between partners is now more socially accepted. \u201cIndividuals are choosing the kind of relationship they really want, instead of trying to conform to narrow expectations for what a relationship is supposed to look like.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content \" style=\"\" data-module-init=\"related-content\" data-module-immediate=\"\" v-cloak=\"\">\n<div class=\"related-content__wrapper \" v-cloak=\"\" :class=\"{'is-loaded':isLoaded}\">\n<p> <span class=\"inline pr-6 text-seafoam-dark\">Related Stories<\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <related-content class=\"related-content__links\" parent-article-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/living-apart-together\/\" current-title=\"What Is \u2018Living Apart Together,\u2019 and Is It Right for You? Here\u2019s What Relationship Experts Think\" current-image=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/GettyImages-living-apart-together-westend61-425x285_418x278_true_70.webp\" v-on:parsely-posts-loaded=\"onPostsLoaded\" start-date=\"2023-07-01\" tag=\"div\" inline-template=\"\" url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/living-apart-together\/\" secret=\"w5ztterVB03LGZJLfXS0hf3EvQBuFFIWew9hmVQxthU\" apikey=\"wellandgood.com\" limit=\"3\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"related-content__card mb-[10px] sm:mb-[20px]\" :class=\"{'related-content__card--full':posts.length === 1}\" v-for=\"(post, key) in posts\"> <a v-on:click.prevent=\"trackLinkGA($event, key)\" :href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/living-apart-together\/post.url\" data-url-source=\"related-content\" class=\"related-content__link\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"\"> <\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content__card--image bg-tan\" :style=\"{ backgroundImage: 'url(' + post.image_url + ')' }\"> <img :src=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/living-apart-together\/post.image_url\" :alt=\"post.title\"\/> <\/div>\n<p> <\/a>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p> <\/related-content> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<h2>Why couples choose living apart together<\/h2>\n<p>Experts say that there are many reasons <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0038026118799053\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" class=\"no-underline citation\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0038026118799053\"><span>why modern couples choose to intentionally LAT<\/span><sup>5<\/sup><\/a>. \u201cWhen you LAT, time with your partner can feel more often like a happily anticipated choice rather than a routine. For some couples it can be easier to be fully present with each other when they know that their activity has a more clearly defined beginning and end,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegaytherapycenter.com\/lgbtq-therapist-nyc-adam\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.thegaytherapycenter.com\/lgbtq-therapist-nyc-adam\/\">Adam Blum, MFT,<\/a> a psychotherapist and the founder and director of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thegaytherapycenter.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.thegaytherapycenter.com\/\">The Gay Therapy Center<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Some couples might find that their interpersonal dynamic is improved by living apart. \u201cWhile living together is often [societally] idealized as the ultimate goal of a committed relationship\u201d Amias says, \u201cin reality, it comes with the potential for increased conflict and decreased quality time together. LAT [can eliminate] two of the most common sources of arguments in a relationship around shared money decisions and household maintenance.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTaking the time to fully understand yourself and who you are as a person in a relationship while also separately as an individual is indispensable,\u201d notes psychologist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/therapists\/kelsey-latimer-stuart-fl\/312715\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/therapists\/kelsey-latimer-stuart-fl\/312715\">Kelsey Latimer, PhD, CEDS-S, RN\/BSN<\/a>, founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kmlpsychologicalservices.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.kmlpsychologicalservices.com\/\">KML Psychological Services<\/a>. \u201cIt allows couples healthy ways to briefly sunder and cool down before addressing and resolving disagreements.\u201d Living apart together may establish balance between one\u2019s own independence outside of the relationship, while maintaining a healthy <a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fpspi0000212\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fpspi0000212\">interdependence<\/a> with a partner. \u201cThat\u2019s very empowering for some people,\u201d Dr. Latimer says.<\/p>\n<h2>Who does living apart together benefit?<\/h2>\n<h3>1. Couples with differing living preferences<\/h3>\n<p>For some, the opportunity to cohabit in a new space is an exciting relationship milestone. However, those who have contrasting living habits or schedules may greatly benefit from living apart together. \u201cThere\u2019s one woman I work with,\u201d says Amias, \u201cwhere the moment she walked into her partner\u2019s home for the first time, she knew they\u2019d never live together. He loved being surrounded by lots of sentimental objects, while she was a minimalist who valued uncluttered space.\u201d While many couples find ways to bridge that gap, some individuals find cohabiting too compromising to their space and sense of self. \u201cThey knew that if they tried to live together, there would be constant tension between their different living preferences,\u201d she explains.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Couples who prioritize alone time and autonomy<\/h3>\n<p>Spending too much time together is strenuous for some, and may affect an individual\u2019s sense of autonomy and ability to balance their self care. Living apart together allows people time to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/tips-highly-sensitive-person\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/tips-highly-sensitive-person\/\">re-charge that battery<\/a> and enjoy a little bit of solitude while still being in a loving, committed relationship.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor individuals who tend to be more introverted and value time alone to refuel,\u201d says Blum, \u201c[LAT] can be especially desirable\u2013 and can support autonomy in relationships.\u201d Quality time increases since how that time is spent is much more intentional\u2014and limited. \u201cThey get the advantages of the love, support, and connection that long term relationships can offer, while avoiding some of the stresses that can come with too much togetherness and not enough <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/6-reasons-to-cherish-your-alone-time\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/6-reasons-to-cherish-your-alone-time\/\">alone time<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>3. Couples who practice non-monogamy<\/h3>\n<p>Some couples are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/types-non-monogamy\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/types-non-monogamy\/\">forgoing monogamy all together<\/a> in favor of a different dynamic, and this is where LAT can be really beneficial. \u201cCouples are increasingly re-thinking the traditional boundaries of [monogamous] relationships and are exploring open and polyamorous routes,\u201d Blum shares. \u201cLiving apart together is a part of this trend of intentional experimentation with boundaries in loving partnerships. They share a common aspiration\u2014to feel intimate and connected to their partner while also engaged in creative connections to others and to themselves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amias agrees. \u201cTraditional [heteronormative] married life and monogamous relationships are no longer the pinnacles of what it means to be in a happy, healthy and loving relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>4. Couples in varying life stages<\/h3>\n<p>Individuals, both young and old, are choosing LAT due to where they\u2019re currently at in life\u2014and this will probably continue to fluctuate over time. \u201cI am seeing younger adults, particularly Gen Z choosing to spend more time individually, while remaining committed to each other, to figure themselves out,\u201d says Dr. Latimer as an example.<\/p>\n<p>Alternatively, \u201cfor older adults, it\u2019s often those who are divorced that are wanting to preserve their independence and personal space after getting out of long, unhappy marriages,\u201d says Amias. They may also already have established careers, homes, and lives they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-enmeshment\/#:~:text=Both%20enmeshment%20and%20codependency%20describe,Fedrick%20says.\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-enmeshment\/#:~:text=Both%20enmeshment%20and%20codependency%20describe,Fedrick%20says.\">don\u2019t feel the need to enmesh<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Are there people who might not gel with LAT?<\/h2>\n<p>Maintaining connection, whether that\u2019s through regularly scheduled visits, calls, or date nights, is imperative for the success of living apart together. As such, this relationship style may not work well for those who place too much emphasis on distance. \u201cCouples who aren\u2019t proactive about connecting with each other will often find that distance grows in their relationship in ways that don\u2019t help, but rather cause estrangement from each other as time passes,\u201d Amias stresses.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Latimer agrees, adding that some individuals may use LAT as an excuse to avoid confronting the challenging, less-than-ideal aspects of a romantic partnership (like learning to share or compromise on tense issues). While conflict is never wanted, it\u2019s ultimately inevitable when navigating romantic interpersonal relationships (in a healthy way, of course!).<\/p>\n<p>Amias notes that individuals who usually feel <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anxious-avoidant-dating-trap\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anxious-avoidant-dating-trap\/\">anxious in relationships<\/a> may also not be suited for LAT. \u201cThey may need more frequent contact to feel connected and [securely] relaxed in the relationship,\u201d she says. Moreover, the constant need for reassurance while apart may intensify and destabilize the anxious individual\u2019s security, and likely the relationship altogether.<\/p>\n<p>The decision to live apart while in a long-term relationship might signal a lack of commitment to some, and while that\u2019s understandable, it isn\u2019t always necessarily the case. There are a variety of factors at play that are unique to each individual and relationship. \u201cFor some people, there is not a commitment without taking the step to live together,\u201d says Dr. Latimer. It\u2019s important to know your needs and boundaries, and it\u2019s okay if living with your partner or spouse is something you desire. But know that LAT may not be right for you.<\/p>\n<h2>How to navigate living apart together successfully<\/h2>\n<p>One commonality relationship experts agree on is the crucial ability to clearly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/communication-styles-relationships\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/communication-styles-relationships\/\">vocalize your needs<\/a> to one another as to why you want to live apart. \u201cCommunication skills are important for all relationships, but they\u2019re especially vital for LAT relationships,\u201d Amias states. Be clear and have a shared understanding about boundaries. \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/assumptions-relationships\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/assumptions-relationships\/\">We tend to make a lot of assumptions<\/a> without talking about them directly. While this doesn\u2019t work well in [monogamous] relationships, it can be particularly disastrous for [non-monogamous] ones, because when something goes wrong, the tendency is to blame the &#8220;nontraditional&#8221; approach, rather than <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/communication-issues-in-relationships\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/communication-issues-in-relationships\/\">the lack of communication<\/a> and clarity about expectations for the relationship [frequency of contact and intimacy, for example],\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTalk openly about what you want and why you want those things,\u201d Dr. Latimer emphasizes. Ask questions with curiosity and without judgment. \u201cWhere do you see yourself, and how does your living arrangement fit into that long-term picture of what you want for the relationship?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Blum says that LAT works best when individuals intentionally connect and embrace vulnerability. \u201cWithout the ability to talk about difficult topics and feel closer at the end of the conversation than at the beginning, couples living apart may be at greater risk of feeling alone and disconnected in the relationship,\u201d he says. \u201cLearn to connect emotionally: Connect over the phone, video, or through texting while not living together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fluidity and reciprocity in LAT relationships allows individuals\u2019 needs to be heard and met. \u201cFlexibility also supports relationships,\u201d Blum says. \u201cBeing available for more time together when one partner is going through a difficult time and needs some extra reassurance is important. We need to know that our partner will be there to support us when we experience greater distress.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, flexibility opens the door for evolution in the dynamics of the arrangement with more ease, should one or both individuals change their mind about LAT at any point. \u201cNothing is better or worse,\u201d adds Dr. Latimer, \u201cbut rather, it&#8217;s about ensuring that everyone feels heard and satisfied so that resentments do not build. Ultimately, the key to any happiness in a relationship is that both people are in agreement on what they want, and they continue [healthily] communicating to ensure they are growing with the relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"block-thin post-citations mt-[40px] mb-[30px]\" data-module-init=\"main-2020\/post-citations\" data-module-immediate=\"true\">\n<hr class=\"!border-seafoam-dark mb-[24px]\"\/>\n<div class=\"post-citations-content flex flex-col gap-[24px]\">\n<p>Well+Good articles reference scientific, reliable, recent, robust studies to back up the information we share. You can trust us along your wellness journey.<\/p>\n<div>\n<ol class=\"!ml-[18px] !mt-0\">\n<li>\n              Duncan, S., Phillips, M., Carter, J., Roseneil, S., and Stoilova, M. \u201cPractices and perceptions of living apart together.\u201d <em>Family Science<\/em>, vol. 5(1). 11 June 2014. pp 1-10, doi.org\/10.1080\/19424620.2014.927382            <\/li>\n<li>\n              Giraud, C. \u201cLiving Part Together: 40 Years of Sociodemographic Research on LAT Relationships.\u201d <em>Population<\/em>, vol. 78(1) (2023): pp. 51-86, doi.org\/10.3917\/popu.2301.0051            <\/li>\n<li>\n              Levin, I., and Trost, J. \u201cLiving apart together.\u201d <em>Community, Work, and Family<\/em>, vol. 2(3) (1999): pp. 279-294, doi.org\/10.1080\/13668809908412186            <\/li>\n<li>\n              Levin, I. \u201cLiving Apart Together: A New Family Form.\u201d <em>Current Sociology<\/em>, vol. 52(2). Mar. 2004. pp. 223-240, doi.org\/10.1177\/0011392104041809            <\/li>\n<li>\n              Ayuso, L. \u201cWhat future awaits couples Living Apart Together (LAT)?.\u201d <em>The Sociological Review<\/em>, vol. 67(1). 18 Oct. 2018. pp. 226-244, doi.org\/10.1177\/0038026118799053            <\/li>\n<\/ol><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<hr class=\"!border-seafoam-dark mt-[24px]\"\/>\n  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1675549\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera. Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Fulchuk. Ina and Jeffrey Garten. What do these three famous couples have in common? They lived apart for a portion (or the entirety!) of their marriage. 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