{"id":8619,"date":"2023-11-05T23:21:05","date_gmt":"2023-11-05T16:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=8619"},"modified":"2023-11-05T23:21:05","modified_gmt":"2023-11-05T16:21:05","slug":"untyping-in-dating-may-shake-up-your-love-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=8619","title":{"rendered":"Untyping in Dating May Shake Up Your Love Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"drop-cap text-big text-gray\"> <span class=\"drop-cap__first text-dropcap \">I<\/span>n her anthem \u201cMy Type,\u201d Saweetie lays out all of the things she looks for in a romantic partner\u2014down to how much money he earns and what kind of car he drives. (And even, ahem, how well-endowed he is.) While not everyone has a wishlist as specific as the rapper\u2019s, research does back up the idea that people have <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/doi\/10.1073\/pnas.1902937116\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/doi\/10.1073\/pnas.1902937116\">particular romantic \u201ctypes\u201d they gravitate toward<\/a>\u2014sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/groundhogging\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/groundhogging\/\">over and over again<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p>But just because it\u2019s common doesn\u2019t mean that everyone is content to stick with their types. According to a survey by Badoo, a dating app, <a href=\"https:\/\/badoo.com\/en\/the-blog\/dating-trends\/the-2022-dating-trends-you-need-to-know-about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/badoo.com\/en\/the-blog\/dating-trends\/the-2022-dating-trends-you-need-to-know-about\">77 percent of daters wanted to try dating outside of their type<\/a>\u2014aka \u201cuntyping.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"\">\n<hr\/>\n<div class=\"experts-in-article noskim py-[24px] px-[40px]\">\n<p>Experts In This Article<\/p>\n<ul class=\"!ml-[18px]\">\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ameliakelley.com\/about\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.ameliakelley.com\/about\/\">Amelia Kelley, PhD<\/a>, relationship therapist and co-author of <a href=\"https:\/\/clicks.trx-hub.com\/xid\/leafgroup_ca5e0_wellgood?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FWhat-Wish-Knew-Surviving-Relationship%2Fdp%2F1684898730%2F%3Ftag%3D%26asc_refurl%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.wellandgood.com%252Funtyping-dating%252F%26asc_source%3Ddirect%26asc_campaign%3Dno-campaign&amp;p=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wellandgood.com%2Funtyping-dating%2F&amp;event_type=click\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/What-Wish-Knew-Surviving-Relationship\/dp\/1684898730\/\" data-type=\"affiliateLink\" data-aff-intermediate=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/What-Wish-Knew-Surviving-Relationship\/dp\/1684898730\/?tag=&amp;asc_refurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wellandgood.com%2Funtyping-dating%2F&amp;asc_source=direct&amp;asc_campaign=no-campaign\"><em>What I Wish I Knew<\/em><\/a> <\/li>\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexwithdrjess.com\/about\/bio\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.sexwithdrjess.com\/about\/bio\/\">Jess O&#8217;Reilly, PhD<\/a>, sexologist and relationship expert <\/li>\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/krista-jordan\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/krista-jordan\/\">Krista Jordan, PhD<\/a>, clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and couples therapist <\/li>\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.minaab.com\/about-minaa\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.minaab.com\/about-minaa\">Minaa B., MSW, LMSW<\/a>, licensed social worker and mental health educator <\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n<hr\/><\/div>\n<p>So what does it mean to break a pattern and date people outside of your usual frame of reference? We talked to dating and relationship experts to break down exactly what it means to untype.<\/p>\n<h2>Why we develop romantic types in the first place<\/h2>\n<p>For some people, having a \u201ctype\u201d in mind helps the often-challenging dating process go more efficiently and smoothly\u2014or at least <em>feel<\/em> that way.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDeveloping \u2018types\u2019 in dating is a way for individuals to identify the characteristics and traits they are attracted to in a potential partner,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.minaab.com\/about-minaa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.minaab.com\/about-minaa\">Minaa B., LMSW<\/a>, a therapist, eHarmony relationship expert, mental health educator, and author. This essentially helps people narrow down what folks are worth investing time on for dating. She adds this includes both desirable preferences and personality traits that feel \u201csafe.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content \" style=\"\" data-module-init=\"related-content\" data-module-immediate=\"\" v-cloak=\"\">\n<div class=\"related-content__wrapper \" v-cloak=\"\" :class=\"{'is-loaded':isLoaded}\">\n<p> <span class=\"inline pr-6 text-seafoam-dark\">Related Stories<\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <related-content class=\"related-content__links\" parent-article-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/untyping-dating\/\" current-title=\"What Experts Think About \u2018Untyping,\u2019 aka Dating People Who Don\u2019t Fit Your Usual Patterns\" current-image=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/GettyImages-untyping-TheGoodBrigade_418x278_true_70.webp\" v-on:parsely-posts-loaded=\"onPostsLoaded\" start-date=\"2023-05-05\" tag=\"div\" inline-template=\"\" url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/untyping-dating\/\" secret=\"w5ztterVB03LGZJLfXS0hf3EvQBuFFIWew9hmVQxthU\" apikey=\"wellandgood.com\" limit=\"3\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"related-content__card mb-[10px] sm:mb-[20px]\" :class=\"{'related-content__card--full':posts.length === 1}\" v-for=\"(post, key) in posts\"> <a v-on:click.prevent=\"trackLinkGA($event, key)\" :href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/untyping-dating\/post.url\" data-url-source=\"related-content\" class=\"related-content__link\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"\"> <\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content__card--image bg-tan\" :style=\"{ backgroundImage: 'url(' + post.image_url + ')' }\"> <img :src=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/untyping-dating\/post.image_url\" :alt=\"post.title\"\/> <\/div>\n<p> <\/a>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p> <\/related-content> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Often, types are developed based on people who already know, or encounters you\u2019ve already had. There\u2019s some evolutionary basis behind that, says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/krista-jordan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/krista-jordan\/\">Krista Jordan, PhD<\/a>, a therapist with Choosing Therapy. \u201cOn a mammalian level, when we see someone who reminds us of people we already know quite well\u2026 we are less likely to want to avoid them,\u201d she says. Basically, your \u201ctype\u201d aligns with what\u2019s familiar because it feels more trustworthy. She believes this happens without conscious intention.<\/p>\n<h2>How we develop our romantic type<\/h2>\n<p>So what\u2019s the secret behind this mysterious, subconscious attraction? A couple of things, experts say.<\/p>\n<p>In a sense, \u201ctyping\u201d begins when you\u2019re quite young, and still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/adult-attachment-styles\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/adult-attachment-styles\/\">developing an attachment style<\/a>, a term for how you subconsciously approach relationships based on how you were treated by parents and caregivers as an infant. \u201cEarly experiences with caregivers between the ages of 1 to 3 tend to set our expectations of close relationships,\u201d Dr. Jordan says.<\/p>\n<p>People are typically most comfortable with what they know, she continues, which explains why \u201cwe tend to gravitate toward partners in adulthood who share characteristics of our parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This can be true even if someone didn\u2019t have the greatest relationship or experiences with their parents. From a Freudian standpoint, this is a case of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.medicalnewstoday.com\/articles\/repetition-compulsion\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.medicalnewstoday.com\/articles\/repetition-compulsion\">repetition compulsion<\/a>, which Dr. Jordan defines as \u201cthe unconscious mind\u2019s desire to fix problems from childhood by replaying them in adulthood.\u201d She gives the example of seeking out narcissistic men after being raised by a narcissistic father to finally win that kind of person\u2019s approval.<\/p>\n<p>These processes are often unnoticeable and quick, Dr. Jordan adds. \u201cHumans in general tend to form an opinion about a person in one-tenth of a second\u2026So the idea that you could be consciously choosing how to feel about a person does not follow cognitive science.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not to say we\u2019re constantly ruled by our unconscious or subconscious. Dr. Jordan points to factors we can choose more consciously, such as social status, religion, political beliefs, physical attractiveness, and education level. \u201cThose can be linked to larger societal beliefs, such as wealth being attractive, or more personal priorities, like marrying someone from the same religion,\u201d she adds.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexwithdrjess.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.sexwithdrjess.com\/\">Jess O\u2019Reilly, PhD<\/a>, resident sexologist at Astroglide, agrees that social expectations and norms have a lot of influence on setting our types. \u201cWe receive strong messages about what constitutes \u2018attractive\u2019 according to our identities, and these messages can be highly limiting and biased,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>We get those messages daily, Dr. O\u2019Reilly continues, from media images, sexual interactions, peer group reinforcement, and who we\u2019re around. \u201cIf you tend to socialize or immerse yourself in specific circles, you may find yourself drawn to those in close proximity. We\u2019re also likely to gather around people with similar educational and economic backgrounds,\u201d she says. That\u2019s when critical examination of societal beliefs and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anti-fat-bias-kids\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anti-fat-bias-kids\/\">challenging personal biases<\/a> (we all have them!) can be important and come in handy.<\/p>\n<h2>Why you go for your &#8220;type,&#8221; even when it doesn\u2019t work out<\/h2>\n<p>As discussed above, familiarity is a big piece here. \u201cEven when things go awry\u2014with an ex, for example\u2014the exposure effect can result in a preference for traits and experiences with which you\u2019re already familiar,\u201d Dr. O\u2019Reilly explains.<\/p>\n<p>That makes sense, right? Being around what you already know and understand does bring its comforts, and vice versa. The fear of the new is real. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ameliakelley.com\/about-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.ameliakelley.com\/about-2\/\">Amelia Kelley PhD<\/a>, a trauma-informed therapist, author, podcaster, and researcher, validates the \u201cfear of the unknown and what it may feel like to be with someone entirely unfamiliar or who challenges you in ways you may not think you are ready for.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to note that familiarity can put you at ease, in a sense, even when it\u2019s unhealthy. \u201cThis can happen as a result of harmful or problematic behaviors being normalized in a person\u2019s family upbringing, as well as among their peers and in society,\u201d Minaa B. adds.<\/p>\n<p>When this is the case, she encourages introspection\u2014why do you choose who you choose, and how is it affecting you?\u2014to prevent the repetition of toxic cycles.<\/p>\n<h2>Is &#8220;untyping&#8221; in dating the answer if &#8220;typing&#8221; hasn\u2019t worked?<\/h2>\n<p>Maybe! \u201cThe success of deviating from your usual type varies among individuals,\u201d Minaa B. says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUntyping\u201d may be a particularly wise choice if you feel like your \u201ctype\u201d isn\u2019t doing you any favors. \u201cIf you continue to repeat old patterns and find yourself in relationships with similar endings, it can be helpful to \u2018untype\u2019 your dating style in order [to] see how you react and feel in a relationship with new dynamics,\u201d Dr. Kelley says. \u201cIt is also important to practice \u2018untyping\u2019 if you find yourself attracted to people who remind you of your past (as people often do) if those in your past were not necessarily good for you or healthy attachments.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To be clear, you don\u2019t have to go for the <em>complete <\/em>opposite of your type. Minaa B. recommends having boundaries you don\u2019t compromise on, and being clear about what those are, before you hop on a dating app or agree to a setup with a friend of a friend. \u201cThere is a difference between deciding you are going to date short men when you usually prefer taller men, versus deciding to date someone who has different religious beliefs when your religion is important to you,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. O\u2019Reilly agrees. \u201cFor example, if someone\u2019s values conflict with your sense of identity\u2014and safety\u2014they&#8217;re unlikely to be a fit for you,\u201d she says. (There are certain values, like white nationalism, that don\u2019t deserve the benefit of the doubt!) \u201cI don\u2019t see this as a matter of \u2018type,\u2019 but as a matter of values.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>The potential benefits of &#8220;untyping&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Dr. O\u2019Reilly sees several pros of untyping in your dating life.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Enjoying different kinds of connections<\/h3>\n<p>While having a \u201ctype\u201d is fair, normal, and common, it\u2019s not <em>always<\/em> helpful and can be based on bias. \u201cSociocultural messaging around who is worthy of love, affection, and desire are exclusionary,\u201d Dr. O\u2019Reilly says, noting how only a small few are favored. \u201cWhen we buy into this, we are absolutely missing out on so many potentially valuable and fulfilling connections in social and sexual arenas.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She adds that diverse experiences can also be more genuine because you aren\u2019t as focused on what \u201cboxes\u201d they check off. Instead, she says, you can sit back and enjoy yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Learning more about yourself and what you like<\/h3>\n<p>Another benefit along those lines: You gain insight into what you value and biases you hold. \u201cThe deeper your dating pool, the more likely you are to learn something about yourself,\u201d Dr. O\u2019Reilly says.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, that includes sex. We all approach sex differently, meaning you may have a better (or at least novel) experience you wouldn\u2019t have had otherwise, she adds.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Breaking patterns that don\u2019t work<\/h3>\n<p>Looking at your \u201ctype\u201d with a critical eye can be healing and promote healthier relationships. For example, if all of your exes had a quality you didn\u2019t like, Dr. O\u2019Reilly says, and weren\u2019t a fit, why continue to pursue other people with that same quality?<\/p>\n<h2>The risks that can come from &#8220;untyping&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Just as \u201cuntyping\u201d may go well, it may go not so well, too. \u201cSome things we can get used to, or learn to appreciate, but others may just not work for you,\u201d Dr. Jordan says. \u201cThis can be painful because you may start relationships that just don\u2019t work in the long run.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>More specifically, this might look like entering relationships that lack compatibility or shared values, lead to confusion, and more, according to Minaa B. Given this possibility, she recommends approaching untyping \u201cwith open-mindedness while still being mindful of one\u2019s own needs and preferences.\u201d In other words, perhaps this is one of those \u201cexpect the worst, hope for the best\u201d situations.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you ever feel you [are] dating someone \u2018despite\u2019 a person, trauma, or relationship, that is also not a good practice for \u2018untyping,\u2019\u201d Dr. Kelley says. She also urges people not to ignore their intuition and gut instincts about a person and go along with a situation just because you\u2019re trying to date outside of your type. Translation: Don\u2019t ignore obvious red flags or problems for the sake of untyping! There\u2019s a difference between getting out of your comfort zone and getting into a situation or a relationship that is unsafe or unaligned with your values. Keeping those reminders in your back pocket can help reduce the risk of harm.<\/p>\n<h2>Other steps to take for best results<\/h2>\n<p>Before diving into untyping, Dr. Kelley suggests listing your \u201cneeds\u201d and \u201cwants\u201d in a partner. Think about what qualities you\u2019re willing to experiment with and which ones are deal-breakers. \u201cIn these cases, it can help to start with \u2018dating yourself\u2019 first,\u201d she says, to better understand what you\u2019re looking for in a relationship and what matters to you, period.<\/p>\n<p>It makes sense you may feel confused, for example, when spending time with someone who has a different vibe. \u201cAt first, people outside of your type are not likely to seem attractive, may feel \u2018too nice,\u2019 or \u2018kind of boring,\u2019 or it may just feel \u2018blah,\u2019\u201d Dr. Jordan says. She explains that if you\u2019re used to intense relationships, for example, the lack of stress can feel like a lack of spark.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Kelley encourages remaining curious and present throughout the date, as well as being intentional about not sabotaging it. The relationship may seem \u201ctoo good to be true,\u201d she continues, when it could actually be a sign you\u2019ve met a partner you can have a happy and healthy relationship with. (Just make sure you\u2019re not running into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/love-bomb\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/love-bomb\/\">a sign of love-bombing<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>In short, this dating trend is less about \u201ctyping\u201d and \u201cuntyping,\u201d and more about considering your intentions, values, needs, and feelings of safety. You deserve positive experiences from those limited right swipes!<\/p>\n<div class=\"block-thin post-citations mt-[40px] mb-[30px]\" data-module-init=\"main-2020\/post-citations\" data-module-immediate=\"true\">\n<hr class=\"!border-seafoam-dark mb-[24px]\"\/>\n<div class=\"post-citations-content flex flex-col gap-[24px]\">\n<p>Well+Good articles reference scientific, reliable, recent, robust studies to back up the information we share. You can trust us along your wellness journey.<\/p>\n<div>\n<ol class=\"!ml-[18px] !mt-0\">\n<li>\n              Park, Yoobin, and Geoff MacDonald. \u201cConsistency between individuals\u2019 past and current romantic partners\u2019 own reports of their personalities.\u201d <em>Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America<\/em> vol. 116,26 (2019): 12793-12797. doi:10.1073\/pnas.1902937116            <\/li>\n<\/ol><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<hr class=\"!border-seafoam-dark mt-[24px]\"\/>\n  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1675549\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In her anthem \u201cMy Type,\u201d Saweetie lays out all of the things she looks for in a romantic partner\u2014down to how much money he earns and what kind of car he drives. (And even, ahem, how well-endowed he is.) 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