{"id":8046,"date":"2023-10-10T06:22:12","date_gmt":"2023-10-09T23:22:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=8046"},"modified":"2023-10-10T06:22:12","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T23:22:12","slug":"how-to-do-double-penetration-safely-during-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=8046","title":{"rendered":"How To Do Double Penetration Safely During Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"drop-cap text-big text-gray\"> <span class=\"drop-cap__first text-dropcap \">B<\/span>utt stuff is far from niche these days, as more folks with vaginas become interested in things like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/is-anilingus-safe\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/is-anilingus-safe\/\">anilingus<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-does-rimming-mean\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-does-rimming-mean\/\">rimming<\/a> (aka anal oral), <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anal-fingering-guide\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anal-fingering-guide\/\">anal fingering<\/a>, and good ol\u2019 p-in-b sex. While all of these back-door sex acts can bring pleasure in and of themselves, there\u2019s also something to be said for combining or pairing them with vaginal penetration, \u00e1 la double penetration.<\/div>\n<p>As the name implies, \u201cdouble penetration (aka DP) involves two different orifices of a person being penetrated simultaneously,\u201d says certified sex therapist <a href=\"https:\/\/aliyahmoore.com\/about\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/aliyahmoore.com\/about\/\">Aliyah Moore, PhD<\/a>, relationship expert at sex toy reviews platform <a href=\"https:\/\/sexualalpha.com\/aliyah-moore\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/sexualalpha.com\/aliyah-moore\">SexualAlpha<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This penetration most often happens \u201cvaginally and anally at the same time,\u201d but DP can also be \u201ctwo penises [or] toys (or one of each) in a single orifice,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/carolqueen.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/carolqueen.com\/\">Carol Queen, PhD<\/a>, staff sexologist at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodvibes.com\/s\/content\/c\/good-vibrations-sexologist-carol-queen\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.goodvibes.com\/s\/content\/c\/good-vibrations-sexologist-carol-queen\">Good Vibes<\/a> and curator of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.antiquevibratormuseum.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.antiquevibratormuseum.com\/\">Antique Vibrator Museum<\/a>. That means you don\u2019t need to involve three people for double penetration\u2014just two and a toy, or one and a double-ended toy can work\u2014but you certainly can (more on that below).<\/p>\n<p>With the extra penetration can come additional pleasure for some. In a nationally representative survey conducted in 2022 of more than 3,000 people in the U.S. who identify as women, <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/35767540\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/35767540\/\">40 percent reported pleasure from \u201canal pairing,\u201d<\/a> or touching in or on the anus at the same time as other forms of sexual touch, including vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. And research has long shown that diversifying the kinds of sexual behaviors with which you engage <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anal-sex-orgasms\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/anal-sex-orgasms\/\">can lead to more orgasms<\/a>\u2014which make sense: More sex acts *can* offer more opportunities for climaxing, so long as they\u2019re all done safely.<\/p>\n<h2>How to know if double penetration is right for you<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s important to note that just because some folks may experience more pleasure with multiple kinds of penetration at once doesn\u2019t mean everyone will; more isn\u2019t <em>always <\/em>more, and for others, the additional penetration could simply feel like too much.<\/p>\n<p>In turn, there\u2019s never an obligation to try DP. But, if any of the below are true for you, you could very well enjoy it.<\/p>\n<h3>You\u2019re curious about how DP feels<\/h3>\n<p>Moore says that \u201ccuriosity is a key factor\u201d in people experimenting with DP. \u201cPerhaps you came across it in adult movies or heard about it from friends, and that sparked an interest in experiencing it firsthand,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content \" style=\"\" data-module-init=\"related-content\" data-module-immediate=\"\" v-cloak=\"\">\n<div class=\"related-content__wrapper \" v-cloak=\"\" :class=\"{'is-loaded':isLoaded}\">\n<p> <span class=\"inline pr-6 text-seafoam-dark\">Related Stories<\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <related-content class=\"related-content__links\" parent-article-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-do-double-penetration\/\" current-title=\"Your Guide to the More-is-More Sex Act of Double Penetration During Solo or Partnered Play\" current-image=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Irina-Efremova-1_418x278_true_70.webp\" v-on:parsely-posts-loaded=\"onPostsLoaded\" start-date=\"2023-04-09\" tag=\"div\" inline-template=\"\" url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-do-double-penetration\/\" secret=\"w5ztterVB03LGZJLfXS0hf3EvQBuFFIWew9hmVQxthU\" apikey=\"wellandgood.com\" limit=\"3\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"related-content__card mb-[10px] sm:mb-[20px]\" :class=\"{'related-content__card--full':posts.length === 1}\" v-for=\"(post, key) in posts\"> <a v-on:click.prevent=\"trackLinkGA($event, key)\" :href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-do-double-penetration\/post.url\" data-url-source=\"related-content\" class=\"related-content__link\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"\"> <\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content__card--image bg-tan\" :style=\"{ backgroundImage: 'url(' + post.image_url + ')' }\"> <img :src=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-do-double-penetration\/post.image_url\" :alt=\"post.title\"\/> <\/div>\n<p> <\/a>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p> <\/related-content> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>In any case, if you\u2019re wondering what DP might feel like or find yourself considering how it might appeal to your sexual interests, that\u2019s your first sign that it may be worth your while to explore it.<\/p>\n<h3>You\u2019re into extreme or hardcore play<\/h3>\n<p>\u201cFor fans of intense penetration and extreme play, double penetration can provide a sensation of fullness [akin] to fisting as well as a [greater] intensity than single penetration,\u201d says Dr. Queen. By a similar token, Moore says that DP can add additional stimulation with \u201cthe potential for heightened arousal and more intense orgasms.\u201d Which is all to say, DP can be a great avenue to explore if you\u2019re keen to ramp up your sexual pleasure.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u201cFor fans of intense penetration and extreme play, double penetration can provide a fullness [akin] to fisting as well as a [greater] intensity than single penetration.\u201d \u2014Carol Queen, PhD, sexologist<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That\u2019s also an important reminder, though, that double penetration can feel like, well, <em>a lot<\/em>. So, if you\u2019re curious about DP, but it feels like a big leap, consider exploring <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/sexual-penetration-techniques\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/sexual-penetration-techniques\/\">other kinds of single penetration first<\/a>, whether solo or with a partner, like angling or adding (which involves using more than one finger). You can add DP to a sexual bucket list, and either try it out with a toy or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-introduce-kink-relationship\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-introduce-kink-relationship\/\">introduce it into a relationship<\/a> when you feel comfortable exploring a more intense sensation.<\/p>\n<h3>You want to deepen your connection with a partner<\/h3>\n<p>While double penetration can certainly crank the dial up on the intensity of any sexual encounter, that doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s <em>just<\/em> for hardcore or kinky sex-plorers. It can also be a great way to make your sexual bond with a partner that much deeper, emotionally speaking.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[Exploring double penetration] can allow you to push your boundaries with a partner, fostering a heightened sense of trust and opening new avenues for communication,\u201d says Moore.<\/p>\n<h2>What to do before trying double penetration<\/h2>\n<h3>Get to know your body<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re new to penetrative sex, double penetration might not be for you\u2014yet. According to Dr. Queen, \u201cknowing how aroused and lubricated you need to be before starting [penetration] and what lubes work best for you, and being experienced with anal sex,\u201d if you\u2019re planning on doing DP with anal penetration, will help make the experience pleasurable for all parties involved.<\/p>\n<p>For any double penetration involving anal, it bears repeating that some prior experience with anal is a necessity, as is engaging in anal-sex best practices. For starters, it\u2019s important to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-use-anal-dilator\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/how-to-use-anal-dilator\/\">prime your butt for anal play<\/a> by using anal dilators, take note of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/eating-before-anal-sex\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/eating-before-anal-sex\/\">what you\u2019re eating before anal<\/a>, and invest in some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-lubes-for-anal-sex\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-lubes-for-anal-sex\/\">high-slip lube to use during anal<\/a>. Getting comfortable with anal on its own will make pairing it with vaginal penetration that much more seamless.<\/p>\n<h3>Discuss specifics with your partner(s)<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re planning on involving a partner or two in double penetration, that shouldn\u2019t be a spur-of-the-moment decision. \u201cPreparing for double penetration requires thoughtful planning,\u201d says Moore. \u201cStart with an open conversation, discuss concerns [and] desires, set clear boundaries, and use safewords [which denote when you&#8217;d like to pause or stop a sexual act].\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As double penetration is a term with many meanings, it\u2019s also important to get on the same page with your partner(s) about what it means for each of you. \u201cSomeone might be open to trying both vaginal and anal penetration simultaneously, while [their partner] might only be comfortable with doubling up on <em>one<\/em> kind of penetration,\u201d says Moore. And that\u2019s why talking things out beforehand is so essential.<\/p>\n<p>But communication isn\u2019t <em>just <\/em>a pre-sex must, either. \u201cDuring the act, if something doesn&#8217;t feel right, speaking up ensures everyone&#8217;s experience remains enjoyable and consensual,\u201d says Moore. \u201cDiscussing [afterward] what worked and what didn&#8217;t can also help improve future encounters.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>How to actually engage in safe double penetration<\/h2>\n<h3>Find a third person you can trust<\/h3>\n<p>Bodies are close to each other in a three-person double penetration configuration (especially in the single orifice version). \u201cFor some, that&#8217;s hot!\u201d Dr. Queen says. \u201cFor others, it&#8217;s a recipe for their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/internalized-homophobia\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/internalized-homophobia\/\">internalized homophobia<\/a> to come out.\u201d Discussing this possibility with all partners in advance and respecting safewords is vital. Dr. Queen has some straightforward words of wisdom: \u201cIf you can&#8217;t talk about it [with all parties], you&#8217;re not ready to do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The ideal third person for double penetration will be \u201ccomfortable in a close, hot, and heavy situation,\u201d adds Dr. Queen. Kink-positive apps or a sex party can be good places to find a third\u2014but you need to be able to trust the person, which means, \u201cit might also be comforting to involve someone you already know,\u201d Moore says.<\/p>\n<h3>Choose a sex position that facilitates DP<\/h3>\n<p>If vaginal and anal penetration is your chosen option for DP with three total people, the cowgirl sex position works well. The person being penetrated \u201cstraddles Partner 1 in cowgirl position, and once [Partner 1\u2019s] penis (or dildo) is in [the] vagina, Partner 2 comes in from behind for anal penetration,\u201d explains Dr. Queen. It\u2019s important to go slowly as \u201centering anally is different when the vagina [has] a penis or toy\u201d in it, she adds. According to Moore, reverse cowgirl can work in much the same way.<\/p>\n<p>Another option? DP doggy style, \u201cwhere the receiver is on all fours, with one giver penetrating from behind and the other from the front,\u201d suggests Moore. You could also try missionary DP, which is a typical missionary with \u201cone giver between the receiver&#8217;s legs, while the second one joins from above,\u201d or standing DP, with \u201cone giver in front and the other behind, both penetrating the receiver simultaneously,\u201d she adds.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing to remember? \u201cThe person being penetrated is in charge,\u201d Dr. Queen says. That is, if the receiver says to stop or slow down, all givers involved must listen.<\/p>\n<h3>Incorporate a sex toy<\/h3>\n<p>As noted above, double penetration doesn\u2019t have to involve a third partner or even another person at all. You can explore DP solo using a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-double-ended-dildos\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-double-ended-dildos\/\">double-ended sex toy<\/a>, which may be your best option if you\u2019re a beginner because, according to Moore, \u201cyou can control both depth and speed at your comfort.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In this case, Moore advises choosing a sex toy designed specifically for DP, \u201clike double dildos or those tailored for simultaneous anal and vaginal use.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Separately, you can also have p-in-v sex with a partner while using (or having them use) a regular dildo for anal penetration, or vice versa. This way, you don&#8217;t need to involve a third person and can maintain greater control over one of the modes of penetration.<\/p>\n<h3>Use ample lubricant<\/h3>\n<p>Lubricant is a critical factor in any type of double penetration play, particularly when it includes anal play, says Moore. (Important reminder: The anus, unlike the vagina, isn\u2019t self-lubricating.) After all, double penetration involves more than one penetrating body part or toy that can cause friction within either the anal or vaginal canal, so it\u2019s all the more important to take precautions for things to glide smoothly.<\/p>\n<h3>Avoid swapping partners or toys in a single orifice<\/h3>\n<p>Like any kind of penetrative sex, double penetration puts you at risk for contracting a sexually transmitted illness (STI) or becoming pregnant if you don\u2019t use protection, but it also comes with a few particular considerations. Namely, it\u2019s important to \u201cavoid going from anus to vagina or vagina to anus [with a penis] unless you change condoms first,\u201d as this can put you at higher risk for both STIs and other bacterial infections, says Dr. Queen.<\/p>\n<p>And the same goes for toys. Never swap a toy from front to back or back to front \u201cwithout cleaning it first,\u201d Moore says.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1675549\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Butt stuff is far from niche these days, as more folks with vaginas become interested in things like anilingus or rimming (aka anal oral), anal fingering, and good ol\u2019 p-in-b sex. 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