{"id":7289,"date":"2023-09-09T05:05:18","date_gmt":"2023-09-08T22:05:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=7289"},"modified":"2023-09-09T05:05:18","modified_gmt":"2023-09-08T22:05:18","slug":"deal-breakers-in-a-relationship-9-red-flags-to-watch-out-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=7289","title":{"rendered":"Deal Breakers In A Relationship: 9 Red Flags To Watch Out For"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindbodygreen-res.cloudinary.com\/image\/upload\/c_crop,x_0,y_0,w_1731,h_1156\/c_fill,w_700,h_400,g_auto,q_85,fl_lossy,f_jpg\/org\/y08jndvsjkj1qkc52.png\" \/><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Deal breakers in a relationship are the long term qualities, behaviors, and values someone displays that do not align with your own views, values, and long term desires, according to licensed psychotherapist\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/openingthedoorspsychotherapy.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Babita Spinelli<\/a>. In other words, she says, they&#8217;re our &#8220;non-negotiables,&#8221; or the specific things we absolutely will not tolerate in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are an individual\u2019s <em>unique<\/em> dealbreakers that are specific to what you want personally, and there are <em>red flag<\/em> dealbreakers that are violations, such as physical abuse, verbal and emotional abuse, and substance abuse,&#8221; Spinelli adds.<\/p>\n<p>Typically, though, the most common deal breakers fall within the categories of finances, children, roles in the relationship, beliefs, communication patterns, sex drives, career aspirations, and location, Spinelli tells mindbodygreen.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s essential to get clear on what your deal breakers are before you commit to someone, because while all relationships require some compromise, &#8220;it\u2019s important to understand whether the compromise feels mutual or could lead to resentment,&#8221; Spinelli notes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1675549\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deal breakers in a relationship are the long term qualities, behaviors, and values someone displays that do not align with your own views, values, and long term desires, according to licensed psychotherapist\u00a0Babita Spinelli. In other words, she says, they&#8217;re our &#8220;non-negotiables,&#8221; or the specific things we absolutely will not tolerate in a relationship. &#8220;There are &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[210,144,175],"class_list":["post-7289","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-breakup","tag-dating","tag-toxic-relationships"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7289","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7289"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7289\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7289"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7289"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}