{"id":6713,"date":"2023-08-21T01:13:26","date_gmt":"2023-08-20T18:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=6713"},"modified":"2023-08-21T01:13:26","modified_gmt":"2023-08-20T18:13:26","slug":"quirofilia-what-to-know-about-a-hand-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=6713","title":{"rendered":"Quirofilia: What To Know About a Hand Fetish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"drop-cap text-big text-gray\"> <span class=\"drop-cap__first text-dropcap \">I<\/span>\u2019ve always found hands to be attractive and, like myself, many people share the same feelings, if the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?client=firefox-b-d&amp;q=attracted+to+hands+reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?client=firefox-b-d&amp;q=attracted+to+hands+reddit\">multiple Reddit posts<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/discover\/attracted-to-hands\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/discover\/attracted-to-hands\">TikTok videos<\/a> on the same are anything to go by. You may have come across videos of women on TikTok talking about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/discover\/guys-with-veiny-arms-are-so-attractive?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/discover\/guys-with-veiny-arms-are-so-attractive?lang=en\">how much they are attracted to men\u2019s veiny hands<\/a>. On the Reddit group, r\/AskWomen, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/ohfm0t\/women_who_find_hands_attractive_what_is_the_appeal\/?xpromo_edp=enabled\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskWomen\/comments\/ohfm0t\/women_who_find_hands_attractive_what_is_the_appeal\/?xpromo_edp=enabled\">a user once asked<\/a> what exactly it was about hands that many women found fascinating. One woman explained that holding her partner\u2019s rough hands felt nice to the touch and reminded her of how hard he worked, while another user said that veiny hands with fingernails painted black awakened something in her. There\u2019s even a whole subreddit dedicated to sharing pictures of hands.<\/div>\n<hr\/>\n<div class=\"experts-in-article noskim py-[24px] px-[40px]\">\n<p>Experts In This Article<\/p>\n<ul class=\"!ml-[18px]\">\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/indigo-stray-conger-lmft-cst\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/indigo-stray-conger-lmft-cst\/\">Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT<\/a>, Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, is an AASECT-certified sex therapist and relationship therapist. She works closely with her clients to achieve their unique vision of a satisfying relationship landscape and to attain personal ease and fulfillment. <\/li>\n<li> <a href=\"https:\/\/thesexconsultant.com\/sample-page\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/thesexconsultant.com\/sample-page\/\">Ness Cooper<\/a>, clinical sexologist and founder of The Sex Consultant <\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n<hr\/>\n<p>It&#8217;s apparent that many people find hands attractive. This may also explain why people go to various lengths to make their hands look more visually appealing with manicures and acrylic nails, as well as investing heavily in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-hand-cream-for-dry-skin\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/best-hand-cream-for-dry-skin\/\">hand creams<\/a>. Hands are also objects of intimacy and imperative to many sexual activities, such as fingering, touching the genitals, or exploring the body. However, if you simply find hands attractive, that does not necessarily mean that you have a hand fetish, also known as quirofilia.<\/p>\n<h2>What is quirofilia?<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cA true fetish means that the object must be present for arousal and\/or orgasm to occur,\u201d explains <a href=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/indigo-stray-conger-lmft-cst\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.choosingtherapy.com\/indigo-stray-conger-lmft-cst\/\">Indigo Stray Conger<\/a>, LMFT, CST, an AASECT-certified sex therapist at <a href=\"https:\/\/milehighpsychotherapy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/milehighpsychotherapy.com\/\">Mile High Psychotherapy<\/a> in Denver. \u201cIn quirofilia, this would mean that looking at, touching, or being touched by a hand is a necessary part of the sexual excitation of the cycle and that a person with quirofilia is unusually focused on hands as an arousal point.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content \" style=\"\" data-module-init=\"related-content\" data-module-immediate=\"\" v-cloak=\"\">\n<div class=\"related-content__wrapper \" v-cloak=\"\" :class=\"{'is-loaded':isLoaded}\">\n<p> <span class=\"inline pr-6 text-seafoam-dark\">Related Stories<\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <related-content class=\"related-content__links\" parent-article-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/quirofilia\/\" current-title=\"Do You Get Sexually Aroused by Hands? Here\u2019s What To Know About Quirofilia\" current-image=\"WG_Editorial_Hand-Fetish-1-425x285.jpg\" v-on:parsely-posts-loaded=\"onPostsLoaded\" start-date=\"2023-02-20\" tag=\"div\" inline-template=\"\" url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/quirofilia\/\" secret=\"w5ztterVB03LGZJLfXS0hf3EvQBuFFIWew9hmVQxthU\" apikey=\"wellandgood.com\" limit=\"3\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"related-content__card mb-[10px] sm:mb-[20px]\" :class=\"{'related-content__card--full':posts.length === 1}\" v-for=\"(post, key) in posts\"> <a v-on:click.prevent=\"trackLinkGA($event, key)\" :href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/quirofilia\/post.url\" data-url-source=\"related-content\" class=\"related-content__link\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"\"> <\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content__card--image bg-tan\" :style=\"{ backgroundImage: 'url(' + post.image_url + ')' }\"> <img :src=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/quirofilia\/post.image_url\" :alt=\"post.title\"\/> <\/div>\n<p> <\/a>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p> <\/related-content> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>A person with a hand fetish may get turned on by the whole hand or certain parts of it, such as the fingernails, fingers, palm, or the back of the hand where veins can be visible.<\/p>\n<p>Hand fetishes are unique to each individual. Some people may get aroused when their partner caresses their body with manicured hands. Others may get turned on by seeing their partner wearing gloved hands. While others may simply get aroused by sucking on their partner&#8217;s hands.<\/p>\n<p>Even though there&#8217;s a dearth of studies on the prevalence of quirofilia, it\u2019s a fairly common fetish that feels very natural due to how hands are often involved in sexual acts.<\/p>\n<h2>Why are hands sexually arousing?<\/h2>\n<p>Hands can be a turn-on for a variety of reasons. For starters, attraction to veiny hands stems from an evolutionary place, particularly for those in cisgender, heterosexual (aka cishet) relationships.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFrom the perspective of evolutionary biology, having visible veins, or vascularity, in a man typically indicates overall good health and low body fat,\u201d Conger says. \u201cVascularity also tends to be most pronounced when, say, a man has recently been working out or exerting himself, which may be read unconsciously by a glancing female as a sexual cue.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Veins are generally more visible in muscular and toned men. A 2017 study by researchers from Griffith University suggested that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5745404\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5745404\/\">women were most attracted to cues of physical strength in men<\/a> such as muscular arms and toned torsos. The researchers reckoned that this was possibly tied to ancient influences and the survival perks of being with a healthy man who can fight.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome people also associate veins on the hands with veins found on the shaft of the penis, and this may be why some find them attractive,\u201d adds <a href=\"https:\/\/nesscooper.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/nesscooper.co.uk\/\">Ness Cooper<\/a>, a therapist and resident sexologist at <a href=\"https:\/\/clicks.trx-hub.com\/xid\/leafgroup_ca5e0_wellgood?q=https%3A%2F%2Fgo.skimresources.com%3Fid%3D104860X1561639%26xs%3D1%26xcust%3DSTMSLS-1104739%26url%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.jejoue.co.uk%252F&amp;p=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wellandgood.com%2Fquirofilia%2F&amp;event_type=click\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.jejoue.co.uk\/\">Je Joue<\/a> in England.<\/p>\n<p>This does not mean that only cishet people experience quirofilia\u2014it just means that the small amount of research so far on the subject has not focused on exploring the reasons other individuals, like non-binary or queer people, are attracted to hands. Broadly speaking, however, therapists have some ideas.\u00a0 \u201cHands are a sensual area and filled with nerve receptors, meaning that we can find soft stroking, light licking, and even sucking of the hands very erotic as our brain can translate these sensations as pleasurable,\u201d says Cooper.<\/p>\n<p>Quirofilia may also be linked to a person\u2019s capacity to imagine those hands during sexual activity, such as stroking or gripping.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s a fashion side to hand fetishism, too, where some individuals enjoy hands clad in different fabric,\u201d Cooper says. \u201cFor some, this is because of how the fabrics make the hands appear and others enjoy the sensation of different materials over their hands when touched by them.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>How to communicate your hand fetish to a partner<\/h2>\n<p>Hand fetishes are pretty common and you shouldn\u2019t feel embarrassed or ashamed to share that you have a hand fetish with your partner(s). However, if you feel vulnerable sharing this proclivity, you can try asking them what turns them on as a starting point.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven if their answer is vague or tends toward the most normative attraction points, this can give you an opening to mention that you have more particular tastes,\u201d Conger advises. \u201cUsually, a partner that is into you will be happy to have a few tips regarding how to turn you on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When communicating with your partner(s), it may be best to share what exactly it is about hands that arouses you and possibly even suggest a few tips. That way, they can have a better understanding of how to incorporate this fetish into your sex life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHowever, try to understand that it\u2019s likely that you\u2019ve been thinking about the fetish longer than them, so give them some time to process it,\u201d Cooper advises.<\/p>\n<h2>How to explore quirofilia<\/h2>\n<p>If you and your partner(s) would like to explore quirofilia, complimenting their hands often or remarking that you like it when they have their nails done a certain way or wear certain gloves (if that\u2019s your thing) can help the both of you to feel more comfortable in exploring this fetish.<\/p>\n<p>Try asking them to take their time touching your body gently with their hands. \u201cAsk them to focus on areas where you can watch them caress you to enhance the visual aspect of this sexual cue,\u201d Conger says.<\/p>\n<p>Sharing erotic pictures where hands are involved is also a great form of foreplay that can help to turn each other on. The great thing about hands is that they are naturally involved in a lot of erotic acts.<\/p>\n<p>If your hand fetish involves certain fabrics, investing in gloves with said fabric to wear in the bedroom and\/or requesting your partner(s) to wear gloves with said fabric can also be a good starting point. \u201cTo get some inspiration, you could also ask them to explore burlesque shows with you as these shows often involve hands in various gloves being removed, and hands moving in erotic positions,\u201d Cooper adds. \u201cMassages also involve hands a lot and allow you to explore hands with various temperatures of massage candles and oils.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you get turned on by touching, kissing, or sucking on hands (with the other person as the more passive receiver), you can ask for their consent to explore this while they relax.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line: Quirofilia\u2014like many other fetishes\u2014is a healthy expression of sexual desire and there are various ways that you can explore it. 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