{"id":4152,"date":"2023-05-25T22:12:45","date_gmt":"2023-05-25T15:12:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/what-is-stigmatophilia-a-beginners-guide\/"},"modified":"2023-05-25T22:12:45","modified_gmt":"2023-05-25T15:12:45","slug":"what-is-stigmatophilia-a-beginners-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loudhdtv.com\/?p=4152","title":{"rendered":"What Is Stigmatophilia: A Beginner&#8217;s Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"drop-cap text-big text-gray\"> <span class=\"drop-cap__first text-dropcap \">F<\/span>or thousands of years, people have gotten body modifications like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-to-do-before-getting-a-tattoo\/\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-to-do-before-getting-a-tattoo\/\">tattoos<\/a> and piercings for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it\u2019s tied to specific cultural practices, like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/in-alaska-indigenous-women-are-reclaiming-traditional-face-tattoos\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/in-alaska-indigenous-women-are-reclaiming-traditional-face-tattoos\">face tattoos of the Maori and Inuit people<\/a>. Other times, people use tattoos and piercings to share their personal stories and experiences, like a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/e\/pop-culture\/semicolon-tattoo\/#:~:text=What%20does%20a%20semicolon%20tattoo,and%20other%20mental%20health%20issues.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/e\/pop-culture\/semicolon-tattoo\/#:~:text=What%20does%20a%20semicolon%20tattoo,and%20other%20mental%20health%20issues.\">semicolon tattoo<\/a> for mental health awareness or an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.insider.com\/engagement-piercing-risks-safety-2018-3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.insider.com\/engagement-piercing-risks-safety-2018-3\">engagement piercing<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p>All to say that tattoos are pretty common and have been for a long time\u2014as has being attracted to those who have them. Research has shown that cis women, for example, tend to find tattooed men <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0191886908003681\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0191886908003681\">healthier and more \u201cmasculine\u201d<\/a> than men without body modifications, and a 2017 survey conducted by the UK dating app Type reportedly found that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/uk\/tattoos-women-dating-app-type-sex-body-art-dame-judi-dench-a7964566.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/uk\/tattoos-women-dating-app-type-sex-body-art-dame-judi-dench-a7964566.html\">two-thirds of female respondents<\/a> were attracted to men with tattoos.<\/p>\n<p>However, some folks get sexual gratification from the tattoo (or piercing) itself. What is this sexual interest, and what does it entail? Here\u2019s a look into stigmatophilia and how to navigate this sexual interest in relationships.<\/p>\n<h2>What is stigmatophilia?<\/h2>\n<p>If you get sexually aroused from body modifications, you may have stigmatophilia. According to <a href=\"https:\/\/esclusivacouplesretreats.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/esclusivacouplesretreats.com\/\">Kendra Capalbo, LICSW<\/a>, a licensed sex and couples therapist at Esclusiva Couples Retreats, stigmatophilia is \u201csexual paraphilia in which sexual pleasure and arousal [are] related to a partner having tattoos, piercings or scars.\u201d Paraphilias, in case you aren\u2019t familiar with the term, are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/books\/NBK554425\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/books\/NBK554425\/\">recurring and persistent sexual interests or behaviors<\/a> that are considered \u201catypical\u201d by societal standards. They generally aren\u2019t considered a mental health condition, with some exceptions if the paraphilia is distressing the person who has it, or if it <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/File%20Library\/Psychiatrists\/Practice\/DSM\/APA_DSM-5-Paraphilic-Disorders.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/File%20Library\/Psychiatrists\/Practice\/DSM\/APA_DSM-5-Paraphilic-Disorders.pdf\">requires harming another person<\/a>. (Not typically the case with stigmatophilia.)<\/p>\n<p>A person with stigmatophilia can be aroused by someone else\u2019s tattoos or scars, or <a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.apa.org\/stigmatophilia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/dictionary.apa.org\/stigmatophilia\">gets aroused from getting tattooed themselves<\/a>. \u201c[Stigmatophilia] can be displayed by feeling turned on at, say, a tattoo shop seeing people with tattoos or knowing you are about to get one,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipmatterstx.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.relationshipmatterstx.com\/\">Lyndsey Murray<\/a>, an AASECT-certified sex therapist at Relationship Matters Therapy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[A person with stigmatophilia] may be someone who only chooses partners that have art\u2014tattoos or piercings\u2014on their body, or they may be someone who has a lot of art on their body because it turns them on if they look that way,\u201d Murray adds.<\/p>\n<p>Stigmatophilia originally referred to people who were aroused by scarification (intentional cutting to create patterns or different skin textures) but has since been expanded. \u201cRecently, this definition [of stigmatophilia] has been expanded to account for those who are sexually aroused by tattoos, piercings, and any other body modifications, especially on the genitals and nipples,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/clicks.trx-hub.com\/xid\/leafgroup_ca5e0_wellgood?q=https%3A%2F%2Fshareasale.com%2Fr.cfm%3Fb%3D999%26u%3D2520112%26m%3D94534%26afftrack%3DSTMSLS-530991%26urllink%3Dthebloomi.com%252F&amp;p=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wellandgood.com%2Fwhat-is-stigmatophilia%2F&amp;event_type=click\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/thebloomi.com\/\">Rebecca Alvarez Story<\/a>, a certified sexologist and the CEO and co-founder of Bloomi.<\/p>\n<h2>How common is stigmatophilia?<\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s limited research on stigmatophilia, but Story says that <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/36201142\/#:~:text=It%20is%20also%20not%20clear,potentiate%20sexual%20arousal%20in%20men.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/36201142\/#:~:text=It%20is%20also%20not%20clear,potentiate%20sexual%20arousal%20in%20men.\">paraphilias in general are more common among men than women<\/a>: \u201cSince <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/22552705\/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/22552705\/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.\">sex drive is on average higher in men<\/a>, it can fuel the motivation to seek out a higher variety of sexual activities, interests, and partners.\u201d (Unclear how that plays out among trans and genderfluid folks\u2014there just isn&#8217;t enough data to say.)<\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content \" style=\"\" data-module-init=\"related-content\" data-module-immediate=\"\" v-cloak=\"\">\n<div class=\"related-content__wrapper \" v-cloak=\"\" :class=\"{'is-loaded':isLoaded}\">\n<p> <span class=\"inline pr-6 text-seafoam-dark\">Related Stories<\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <related-content class=\"related-content__links\" parent-article-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-stigmatophilia\/\" current-title=\"Do Tattoos and Piercings Turn You On? There\u2019s a Term for That\" current-image=\"GettyImages-what-is-stigmatophilia-Anchiy-425x285.jpeg\" v-on:parsely-posts-loaded=\"onPostsLoaded\" start-date=\"2022-11-25\" tag=\"div\" inline-template=\"\" url=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-stigmatophilia\/\" secret=\"w5ztterVB03LGZJLfXS0hf3EvQBuFFIWew9hmVQxthU\" apikey=\"wellandgood.com\" limit=\"3\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"related-content__card mb-[10px] sm:mb-[20px]\" :class=\"{'related-content__card--full':posts.length === 1}\" v-for=\"(post, key) in posts\"> <a v-on:click.prevent=\"trackLinkGA($event, key)\" :href=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-stigmatophilia\/post.url\" data-url-source=\"related-content\" class=\"related-content__link\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"\"> <\/p>\n<div class=\"related-content__card--image bg-tan\" :style=\"{ backgroundImage: 'url(' + post.image_url + ')' }\"> <img :src=\"https:\/\/www.wellandgood.com\/what-is-stigmatophilia\/post.image_url\" :alt=\"post.title\"\/> <\/div>\n<p> <\/a>  <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p> <\/related-content> <\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>However, some tattoo artists say they have encountered stigmatophilia in their own shops. <a href=\"https:\/\/newflowerstudio.com\/nfw\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/newflowerstudio.com\/nfw\/\">John Johnson<\/a>, the owner of New Flower Studio in Long Beach, California, and an online education administrator for the Association of Professional Piercers, has had a few instances where his clients became erect or made sexual comments during the piercing experience. \u201cI don&#8217;t know if this is specifically a result of them being aroused or just a biological reaction to being handled, cleaned for the procedure, and being examined,\u201d says Johnson.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;Different people enjoy and appreciate different things sexually, and I think that&#8217;s just human.&#8221; \u2014John Johnson, owner, New Flower Studio<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Johnson also mentions that couples have kissed or had sexual conversations during a piercing appointment. Still, he\u2019s okay with them creating a sexual environment if it doesn\u2019t cross his boundaries. \u201cI communicate my boundaries very clearly, and like all piercers, I maintain control of the piercing room.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/fortunatotattoo\/?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/fortunatotattoo\/?hl=en\">Emmanuel Fortunato<\/a>, a tattoo artist at Mad Rabbit in New York City, says he hasn\u2019t had a client confess to becoming sexually aroused from getting a tattoo but understands that a tattoo \u201cis something very personal, where you submit your trust and make a compromise for the rest of your life, which is exactly why it would not surprise me if someone felt more intense feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI would think [stigmatophila] is very normal,\u201d says Johnson. \u201cDifferent people enjoy and appreciate different things sexually, and I think that&#8217;s just human.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Can stigmatophilia ever be a cause for concern?<\/h2>\n<p>Story reiterates that stigmatophilia \u201cisn\u2019t considered to be [a] perversion or mental illness\u201d and is not \u201can uncontrollable desire that can only be satisfied by performing a sexual act.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, Capalbo notes that if a person requires continuous body modifications to feel aroused, their stigmatophilia can \u201creach the level of a disorder and thus [be] a legitimate health concern.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For example, Capalbo mentions that a person with stigmatophilia may have the urgent and repetitive need to touch or get several body modifications. This compulsivity may lead to a person \u201crisking getting infections and regretting a decision at a later stage,\u201d says Capalbo. (If the tattoo artist doesn\u2019t use sterile equipment, there\u2019s an increased risk of developing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC8549973\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer-when-downgrade\" data-vars-event=\"body text\" data-vars-click-url=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC8549973\/\">infections like hepatitis C or HIV<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s okay if someone wants to have their entire body covered in body art, just make sure the needles and material are clean, legitimate, and not shared with others if you decide to do so,\u201d says Murray.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, if someone is experiencing signs of distress or discomfort from stigmatophilia, they should seek help from a mental health professional.<\/p>\n<h2>Navigating stigmatophilia in romantic and sexual relationships<\/h2>\n<p>If you have stigmatophilia, being open about it with your partner(s) can certainly benefit your romantic and sexual relationships. According to Capalbo, it can \u201cadd sexual excitement and pleasure both for an individual as well as partners and \u2018spice up\u2019 their sex lives, make you feel close to other like-minded people, and allow them to explore your sexuality.\u201d Sharing these desires, and exploring them with your partner(s), can also encourage self-confidence, she says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs with every relationship, it is important for all partners to be honest with each other and communicate their sexual wants and needs,\u201d adds Story.<\/p>\n<p>Having a conversation about sexual interests can be nerve-wracking, but it\u2019s important to be open and honest. \u201cProvide some context to your partner as to what triggered this in the first place and what exactly you like or dislike,\u201d Capalbo suggests. \u201cA mutual understanding and direct and honest conversation with your partner will help you in navigating through incorporating or not incorporating new elements into your relationship and sex lives.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If your partner(s) cannot meet your sexual interests, Murray says you should \u201cexplore other ways to meet your needs, perhaps including watching ethical pornography together that involves individuals who do have tattoos and piercings.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line: Stigmatophilia is part of the vast mosaic of the human sexual experience. 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